Monday, March 29, 2010

He's Just Not That Into Me

Hola Amigos..
yesterday was a 'rainy' day so I decided to put off my internet cable and looked for something to read. But then I felt so bored so I opened my old box and looked for some DVDs to be watched. well there were some movies that I've bought since even some years ago but I never watched them. while choosing a movie, my eyes stucked in 'He's just not that into you'. I've had this movie for almost a year but never played it on. when I was in KKN, a friend also bought this movie but still had no mood to watch it. looking at the title, I was just afraid.. I didnt know what was I afraid about, but now I realize it. I didnt want to know if 'he's just not into me'. How shame, I was running away.
but not now, thing has changed, I've learn a lot.. yesterday I finally watched it, along the movies I often said, "oh it's just like me". I love everyword said by the actors and the actresses, they're all mad me feel better.

"Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave."
"And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment, you never gave up hope."
(He's just not that into you, 2009)

4 comments:

thisisrizka said...

pantesan dirimu gak OL-OL, ternyata ooh ternyata.. :)

Wida Wulasari said...

iyaa, lagi butuh me time :D

winasheila said...

hey ma'am, it's one of my fave movie!

these are the rules for the girl:
1. if a guy doesn't call you, he doesn't want to call you.
2. if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, then he genuinely doesn't give a shit! No exceptions.
But, If a guy wants to date you, than he will make it happen.

Wida Wulasari said...

yuhuuu dear, I do love that rules too, if a guy wants to date you, than he will make it HAPPEN :)